Amanda Todd

SoCal wrote:

if she cant stand up for herself then shes weak and weak people dont survive

and this is why she's dead

There was a girl up here in scotland like that but she did something alot worse than flashing her boobs, she made a full blown porno with 3 guys from my school. She was only 14 and they were 15. She moved school and changed her name about 3 times but everyone knew who she was, nobody tried to bully the boys but instead everyone bullied her. Don't know what happened to her I think she moved back to poland with her family or something.

Did you see it?

and do u know where to find it?

SFX Cougar wrote:

Did you see it?

i knew someone would say that

Unfortunatley yes, They came back to school and tried to send it to everyone then got arrested because one of the teachers found out. The police took their phones off them as it the phones contained the "Evidence" and never gave them the phones back haha. In our school if you were caught talking about it you got excluded for a week, we had reporters trying to pay us to tell them the story at lunch time when we went to the shops, It was crazy.

holy shit.

TSM BeeDee wrote:

Unfortunatley yes, They came back to school and tried to send it to everyone then got arrested because one of the teachers found out. The police took their phones off them as it the phones contained the "Evidence" and never gave them the phones back haha. In our school if you were caught talking about it you got excluded for a week, we had reporters trying to pay us to tell them the story at lunch time when we went to the shops, It was crazy.

she should of killed herself in the porno made it serial killer porn..tastey

SoCal wrote:

TSM BeeDee wrote:

Unfortunatley yes, They came back to school and tried to send it to everyone then got arrested because one of the teachers found out. The police took their phones off them as it the phones contained the "Evidence" and never gave them the phones back haha. In our school if you were caught talking about it you got excluded for a week, we had reporters trying to pay us to tell them the story at lunch time when we went to the shops, It was crazy.

she should of killed herself in the porno made it serial killer porn..tastey

*facepalm*

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*facedesk*

This is not rated pg

I was bullied at school had friends that were not really friends I got bullied to the point I wouldn't go to school depressed and stuff I got to the point of dropping out of school .

Then my dad pushed me hard I got a high paying job when I was 15 and grew up really fast I owe all of my success to my dad for pushing me that hard and the bully's that pushed my life in that path .

It was great revenge was sweet rolling up to the school to pick up my gf in my new 2003 falcon xr6 having the money at a young age to get ahead in life and allso have fun that normal teenages at school couldn't the looks I got we're priceless .

Jealousy now fuelled my bully's as I was getting the last laugh even today at 22 years old I have a wife a house and 2 cars and my bullys that I kept on my Facebook for laughs fell in a hole with no job and drug / alcohol problems .

I hope my story inspires someone out there even though school is tough and everyone is against you only the belief and soport of yourself and others can give you the power to overcome and excel in life .

Artwebber wrote:

I was bullied at school had friends that were not really friends I got bullied to the point I wouldn't go to school depressed and stuff I got to the point of dropping out of school .

Then my dad pushed me hard I got a high paying job when I was 15 and grew up really fast I owe all of my success to my dad for pushing me that hard and the bully's that pushed my life in that path .

It was great revenge was sweet rolling up to the school to pick up my gf in my new 2003 falcon xr6 having the money at a young age to get ahead in life and allso have fun that normal teenages at school couldn't the looks I got we're priceless .

Jealousy now fuelled my bully's as I was getting the last laugh even today at 22 years old I have a wife a house and 2 cars and my bullys that I kept on my Facebook for laughs fell in a hole with no job and drug / alcohol problems .

I hope my story inspires someone out there even though school is tough and everyone is against you only the belief and soport of yourself and others can give you the power to overcome and excel in life .

That is what you call revenge.

I had the same problem when I was a over weight kid. It was a hard 10 years of my life being called names and pushed around. So then one year this was end of freshmen year I said I going to change this once and for all. I lost about a good 60 pounds in 2 months and gained about 40 in muscle. The first day I walked by the bullys and they are ran and never talked to me again. Ever since then I work out like crazy to stay big so I know Ill never get picked on again.

i was bullied pretty bad when i was younger, but then i learned to stand my ground and fight back and never ever let someone break me down, nut up...or shut up, i will never let someone ever put me down

haven't read it all, and i feel really sorry for her and what happened but she did flash her boobs numberous times, drunk bleach numerous times, and had sex with someones boyfriend a heap of times, not sure if anyone had stated that yet, i'm not having a go at her actions, just wasn't sure if it was mentioned.

ok Turbo, i know exactly how you feel, i've been bullied since i was 11, i'm now 2 months off being 17...
i'm a red head, and in my state and my school (and previous primary) that is like satanic (if thats a word). i get so much crap for being a red head it's beyond belief, we're playing sport and i miss a target all i hear is "you stupid fu**ing ranga, your s*it" or "just leave you ugly ranga F*ck"
it's the same in class, i get an answer wrong or say something someone doesn't like "shut up you stupid ranga" and shit like that.
it doesn't stop there, i'm not the most attractive guy by a long shot, and that and being ranga is the worst combination that could happen. i get so much crap for these things its not even right, and it's all over a fucking hair colour. but wait it doesn't stop there.

so i play AFL, you've heard of it right? and just finished my 13 year of it, i live in queensland which is heavily run by 'big' rugby players that think their top shit, which majority of them arent, and you know what really shits me off is the GAYFL crap i get, i know its only words but when you constently get called gay, homo, get told i play a gay mans sport and etc. it drags me down a lot. i'm by no means gay, and i have huge respect for those that are, takes a lot of courage to announce that, but when a straight person is called gay, and the people mean it, it's really upsetting. and these are all the petty things, which is the sad part.

then theres the fact that i like cars, only one of my other mates like cars and racing and all my class mates say stupid shit about my love of cars and racing to the point that i actually come home and cry and yes, i will admit i've done that a few times thats how bad its getting. i know it's only cars/racing and it shouldn't mean that much, but the way they say it and how they say it is just so bad and has a huge impact on me.

the one thing thats shits me off the most is my injury and the crap i get from that. so in june last year, i got a severe ankle injury where i: ruptured (completely) my medial and lateral ligaments (inside and outside) of my ankle, when they sheered in half, i ripped bits of bone off the bones that attach them and i got a bone contusion (sever bone brusing) where the bottom of my tibia and fubula smashed into the top of my ankle and damaged the bone. the doctors said that if i had done it any harder, my growth plate would have been in peices and my tibia and fubula would have been split in half, vertically.. so anyway, because of the severity of my injury, i was out from football and every other sport for what should have been 18 months, somehow i managed to cut that down and played my first game back a day short of a year later. this extended period of time gave everyone around me to pay the fuck out of me for 'being a pussy' or 'milking my injury' and shit like that just because i was taking precautions and making sure it was healed to the best it could. and this when on up until a month before my first game back. the amount of crap i got from it was so degrading that i, a 16 year old male, went home and broke down in my mothers arms for the first time in a very very long time.

now i know you guys are only internet friends but i need to tell you this and promise it stays here. so, a few years ago, and to be honest, a few weeks ago, i had contemplated suicide many times because of the severity and longevity of my bullying. the only thing that stopped me was my little sister and brother, and my mum who when she found out lost it and was crying a lot because she lost her brother when he was at the age of 18 and she was 11. if it wasn't for them, i would not be here right now typing this to you. but you know what the really sad and pathetic part is, i told my closest and most trusted friends this, and they went and told the whole year level, and the crap i got from that was 10 times worse than all of the other crap combined, you'd think they'd give you support, not shoot you down and give you a harder time, but i guess thats the joys of fucking australian school.

that went on for longer than i thought, but turbo, i know exactly what you are/have been going through so if you need anyone to talk to, let everything go and get advice from, i'm more than happy to help.

i'm sorry for my foul language and that it went on for so long, but i have been holding that back for way to long and just needed to let it all go, so i'm terribly sorry to everyone.

i'm also sorry for anyone on this site that was a bully for what i say next (with a bit of bad language as well, but i'll try cut that down): to every bully around the world, grow the fuck up and stop shooting people down. it is the most low life, selfish and degrading this a person could do to someone else who does not deserve it, it makes me disgusted to see people commit suicide at the hands of someones harsh words, and what makes it worse is when you have never met your uncle because he got bullied and commited suciced before you were born, it is the one thing that remains on my mind forever, so grow the fuck up and learn some respect.

once again sorry for the rage and ramble about my crap life, and i'm sorry if i offended anyone, but i just had to get it all off my chest and this is going on facebook becuase i've had enough of everyones crap.
thaknks and let Amanda rest in a bully free peace

and if anyone fights you there are 3 things you can do *best in this order:
1. cup your hands like your holding a bowl with your hands joined under it, then swing your arms in as fast as you can, with your hands finishing with the cuped bit around their ears, this increases ear pressure, hurts alot, throws them off balance and disorients them
2. grab 2-3 fingers, and jab the trapezius muscle multiple times just under the actual muscle (the muclse that runs from your shoulder to your head). or pinch it, this disables their arm for a short time so you can a) finish them or escape
3. if you do the first, second or both, go arounf to their kidneys and basically pucn them there, or elbow or even your chin, something pointy that wont actually pearce the skin, this causes excrutiating pain.
4. hit them just below the ribs, in the solarplexars, of you've nevery been hit there before, your lucky, you can barely breathe, and topple over for ages
5. kick their knee in, literaly kick them directly in the knee, causing it to hyper extend, rendering the leg useless, you can escape.
6. the same as no. 2, but further up the neck, its basically a really hard karate chop to the neck, simple.
7. grab under the side of their jaw and dont let go, if you grab the right spot, even on yourself and barely push, you will feel the pain it causes
8. go round to the front of their jaw and right in the middle of the fleshy bit between the chin and the neck, jab your thumb right up there, it causes a lot of pain and time to escape.
9. this is a second last resort, and its simple, line him up, and kick him square in the joules. as we all know, it hurts a lot and gives you time to escape.
10. now this is an absolute last resort, because if performed right, it can knock them out for between 10 and 45 seconds, but if done wrong, it can kill. hence why i haven't done it yet, i'm still training, no wher near enough experience. what you do is with your fingers, you find the top of the adams apple, an right above that is the trachea, which is the opening to the wind pipe, what you do is jab your fingers in there really hard, knockes them out cold, but as i said, if you do it wrong, their dead, so its a last resort, not good in a sports fight or a school fight, but if you're being mugged/bashed on the street or god forbid raped, go for it.

now this may seem like i know this because i'm a bully, but from my previous post, its evident i'm not, what i left out of my last post is that i got bashed and still get bashed, a lot, so i've taken up this self defence thing where you use the bodies pressure points to render your opponents body useless so they can't fight back, and you can escape.

if you have a rough idea on what your doing it can be done in 40-60 seconds, if you know what you're doing and hit the pressure points 50% first try, about 30-35 seconds, and if your a master at it, about 5-20 seconds tops. my best time, iin a real fight, that i still dont know why it happened, took me 43 seconds, but in training i can get 27 seconds.
so it helps, it just takes lots and lots of practice and accuracy under pressure

Hello Turbo,

This is my .02 worth. Everyone's advice is great you have to stand up to these fools, people are truly messed in the head seriously. I to was bullied from the age of seven up (due to a car accident that messed me up mentally and physically/ I'm somewhat normal now lol). The only way stop this is to knock one of them flat on there a** but you have to reliez that your going to take a beating one or twice in life. I boxed 9yrs the best advice i can give someone that may or may not have ever been in a fight is protect your face, and when you swing picture something behind this person as a target and dont clench your fist till almost impact and between the eyes across the bridge of the nose, get there eyes watering (makes them look like there crying) and then hit him in the jaw (loosing up some teeth most of the time works), and if you dont have time to get the jaw duck the swing from him and hit the kidneys as hard and fast as you can. Yes i've had my fair share of fights off the mat.

As a parent i would not approve of this. But you do need to stand up for yourself because they will never stop until then, as my father said to me giving a good a** whooping to someone will make them stop.

I got hassled a LOT in school for being gay. It never stopped, and I let it drive me out of school. I dropped out in my junior year. I regret it all the time, because I let them win. But I've been to trade school, got certified as an auto tech, and I'm happily living with my lover. So stuff them.

The best thing you can do to a bully is live your life. It doesn't seem very effective right now, but later on in life when their personality keeps them from getting/holding a job, they'll regret all the shitty things they did and rethink how they act. If you just carry on like nothing they do bothers you, eventually they'll realize how irellevent they are.